My Not So Gay Boyfriend

In the grand tradition of Gay Boyfriends before him (OQB, GB) I have met and started spending most of my time with a new gay boyfriend. A fabulous man, who as luck would have it he is also my new roommate. The only problem is, he isn’t actually gay.

He and I bonded about a week ago. I took him as my date to the opening night of a show and then we went off to the opening night party together, and then to a party a the Grocer’s house (the online date guy who I am no longer with). We danced until after 3am and I helped him to get someone’s number and we just generally had a good time.

This week we went to dinner on Monday – with Awesome, then to a party on Wednesday, made a BBQ at home on Thursday and then watched a great movie Friday night.

The only thing that sets him apart from OQB and GB is, well he isn’t gay. Not that there is anything wrong with not being gay, it’s just that it has been a while since I have had a platonic guy friend that wasn’t gay, or an ex lover. Don’t get me wrong it is great. He just wandered upstairs and asked if I wanted to go on a picnic this afternoon.

Now all he needs and a pithy nickname for the sight. Not Gay Boyfriend (NGB), Not So Gay Boyfriend (NSGB), Straight Gay Boyfriend (SGB), Gay Straight Boyfriend (GSB), … I just can’t decide.

TSG