Who Knew That is What I Needed?

One of the best nights out I have had in weeks, turned out to be a night in with OQB last week. I was staying at his place one night while in the centre of the universe and when we were making a plan for the evening he asked what I wanted to do as it was a Friday night. “Don’t really care, what do you want to do?” I said thinking we would hit a bar or two, but he surprised me by saying “I don’t care as long as we don’t go out.”

So we stayed in, gossiped, drank a bottle of wine, contemplated drinking a second and played a game of scrabble. Not what I expected from my OQB, but truly what I needed and wanted. Part of our gossiping circled around this blog actually … and a post I made a few days early called Vaguely Messy.

After I posted Vaguely Messy, one of my regular readers and an interesting blogger in his own right Cap. posted a comment. I read it accepted it and responded. Ten minutes later, another comment – at this point he has made my day – and another response from me. Then, much to my surprise he gave me his email so we sent a few emails about West Coast Swing – a topic he is very passionate about. Now, don’t get any ideas readers, it was all just innocent flirtation and chat, but again, it was what I needed and wanted – attention from someone other than the messy boys in my life.

So thanks Cap and OQB for making this single girl’s week last week. You both rock.

TSG