Wednesday

My Paranoia

I started this blog over a year ago and a few times over that year I have been told that people I know read the blog. That is fine most of the time until you are in a social situation and someone you know brings up the waxing and then you question sharing your intimate moments with friends and strangers.

Right now I know most of my readers wither personally or through their own blogs. Thanks to my handy dandy site meter I know where you all come and when you are reading and when you are commenting. But lately, there have been some new folks stopping by (which I love, I really do) but it makes me nervous that the wrong people might end up finding the site.

(Somewhere on the other side of the Country The Lady has just rolled her eyes and said “duh? And I told you so” to her computer screen.)

Why am I telling you … well someday, I may have to change this site, make it private, or delete it all together, because, I realize anonymity doesn’t last forever, but I am still trying.

So please if you see me and you think you know this is my blog … pretend you don’t … if not for me then for the sake of the blog.

Thanks,

The Slightly Neurotic and Paranoid – Single Girl

4 comments:

Victoria said...

I totally hear you.
When I first started my blog, the one person I told about it said "just remember...at some point, the one person you don't want to read it will find it and read it" and I've always kept that at the back of my mind.. the thought that no matter how anonymous I try to be someone I know may at some point read it.
So I try to keep that in mind... not sure if that's paranoid or sensible.
But, yeah. I understand and if I knew who you were I'd pretend I didn't : )

The Single Girl said...

Thanks for that but,you know what is funny, because we don't know each other if you and I were sitting at a coffee shop or a dinner party, on some level I would totally dig it if you figured out who I was or ice versa and one of us lean over and said - I know you, I am TSG or I am Victoria. You know? Like a secret spy meeting ;)

But yeah, it is weird isn't it, this pseudo secret life ...

Anonymous said...

you could always wear a mask out...or is TSG the mask? hmmmmm

The Single Girl said...

TSG is me, and a mask, and a persona. Yeah, that's it.